The David Kaufer Podcast: The Lighter Side of the Spectrum
Welcome to “The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,” a podcast where we explore how to find joy, connection, and growth while navigating the challenges of parenting kids and teens on the autism spectrum. Hosted by David Kaufer, father of a 19-year-old non-speaking autistic son, this podcast offers a fresh, uplifting perspective on life with autism—focusing on the moments of triumph as well as the obstacles.David’s son was unable to communicate reliably until he was almost 17, when they discovered and began using the spelling methodology that profoundly changed his life. His inspiring journey from silence to communication serves as a beacon of hope for anyone needing encouragement in the autism community.In addition to sharing his personal experiences, David tackles broader issues, such as building inclusion into healthcare practices to ensure those on the spectrum receive compassionate, competent care. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or professional, join us for light-hearted discussions...
Episodes

Friday Dec 05, 2025
Friday Dec 05, 2025
In this special 50th episode of 'The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,' David celebrates a significant milestone—one year of the podcast. David reflects on the journey, sharing personal anecdotes, listener feedback, and heartfelt thank-yous. Producer Dave joins in, highlighting the show's evolution and its impactful moments. The episode also revisits notable guests and topics from the past year, including autism communication breakthroughs, sensory motor differences, and the role of AI in assisting neurodiverse individuals. Special segments feature touching stories from David's son, Stone, and enlightening interviews with experts like Dr. Elizabeth Torres and Libby Ralston. The episode culminates with an inspiring account of a recent advocacy trip to New York, showcasing Stone's direct engagement with a global audience. As they look forward to another groundbreaking year, David and Dave emphasize their commitment to fostering community, resilience, and inclusive conversations.
Topics
00:38 Celebrating Episode 50!
03:18 Reflecting on Memorable Episodes
04:14 Interview with Meg Parkinson
08:02 Educational Equity with Lara Hruska
11:10 Brain Enhancement Therapy
17:23 Stone's Journey and Reflections
24:19 Turning the Corner: Embracing New Methodologies
24:42 Introducing Lila: The AI Partner
26:31 AI's Role in Emotional Support
28:39 AI in Everyday Life
33:05 Dr. Elizabeth Torres on Sensory Motor Neuroscience
38:24 Libby Ralston's Advocacy and Personal Story
42:26 The Great Autism Advocacy Adventure
45:20 Looking Ahead: Future Possibilities

Wednesday Dec 03, 2025
Wednesday Dec 03, 2025
David welcomes Ken Cook, president and co-founder of the Environmental Working Group (EWG), to discuss the intersection of environmental health and autism advocacy. They delve into the misconceptions around vaccines and autism, focusing on how false narratives have overshadowed other significant environmental risks. Ken shares insights from his extensive work in environmental policy, including the role of toxic chemicals, air and water quality, and pesticides in public health. The conversation addresses the importance of supporting families affected by autism, acknowledging the failures in communicating vaccine safety, and the need for robust, transparent scientific inquiry. Ken also emphasizes the bipartisan potential for addressing environmental health issues and the critical need for policy reforms to support autistic individuals and their families. The episode reflects on the broader implications of deregulation in environmental protections under the current administration.
Topics
00:46 Today's Topic: Environmental Health and Autism Advocacy
01:26 Guest Introduction: Ken Cook
02:14 Ken Cook's Impact and Recent Work
04:49 The Vaccine Misinformation Debate
11:49 Personal Stories and Reflections
13:52 Environmental Health Policies and Challenges
19:55 The Role of Public Health Institutions
24:11 Conspiracy Theories and Public Trust
30:28 Regulatory Challenges and Financial Interests
37:58 Environmental Health and Autism
38:39 Coal and Energy Policies
39:22 Conspiracies and Public Trust
40:29 Vaccine Debates and Public Health
49:32 Autism and Public Perception
55:50 Future of Environmental and Health Policies
01:00:34 Hope for the Future
38:39 Coal and Energy Policies
39:20 Conspiracies and Public Trust
40:29 Vaccine Debates and Public Health
49:32 Autism and Public Perception
55:50 Future of Environmental and Health Policies
01:00:31 Hope for the Future

Friday Nov 21, 2025
Friday Nov 21, 2025
David welcomes Dr. Marina Weiler, a neuroscientist and assistant professor at the University of Virginia's Division of Perceptual Studies. They delve into Dr. Weiler's journey from mainstream neuroscience to studying consciousness beyond the brain, touching on topics like non-speaking autism, telepathy, and the cultural differences in understanding spiritual experiences. Dr. Weiler shares her experiences and the challenges she faces while researching controversial subjects, such as the telepathy tapes and non-local communication. The episode emphasizes the importance of presuming competence among non-speaking autistics and explores the transformative impact of out-of-body experiences. Both curiosity and scientific rigor are highlighted as essential elements in investigating these phenomena. The discussion also touches on the potential for future research and the need for more empirical evidence to validate these groundbreaking findings.
Topics
01:05 Meet Dr. Marina Weiler: A Journey from Neuroscience to Consciousness
03:36 Cultural Influences and Personal Experiences
05:00 Challenges and Skepticism in Consciousness Research
11:06 Exploring the Division of Perceptual Studies
18:38 Out-of-Body Experiences and Empathy
20:54 Non-Speaking Autistics and Telepathy
26:08 Unveiling Hidden Talents: Telepathy in Non-Speakers
27:44 Scientific Validation: The Need for Evidence
28:20 The Controversy of Telepathy in Non-Speaking Populations
30:38 Personal Experiences with Non-Speakers
33:21 The Phenomenon of Shared Consciousness
36:48 Collecting Stories: A Call to Action
45:03 Future Research and Studies
47:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Friday Nov 14, 2025
Friday Nov 14, 2025
David engages with Denise Marshall, Executive Director of the Council of Parent Attorneys and Advocates (COPAA), to discuss the essential work of protecting and advancing the rights of students with disabilities. Denise shares her journey from working on behavior support at the Kennedy Krieger Institute to her leadership role at COPAA, which champions equal educational opportunities for all students. The conversation explores the challenges of advocating for disability rights in the current political climate, the importance of inclusion, the need for bipartisan support, and the critical role of organizations like COPAA in providing advocacy and support for families. The episode also delves into the controversies surrounding communication methods for non-speaking students and the systemic bias they face. Finally, Denise emphasizes the importance of continued activism and collective voice in securing and defending the rights and dignity of students with disabilities.
Visit https://www.copaa.org/
Topics
01:07 Guest Introduction: Denise Marshall
02:02 Denise's Journey in Disability Rights Advocacy
07:53 The Mission and Impact of COPA
11:51 Challenges and Advocacy in Special Education
18:41 Concerns About Eroding Protections
31:03 Debating the Evidence Base for Spelling Communication
31:32 Advocacy Efforts and Challenges with ASHA
32:24 The Importance of Communication Rights
34:40 State Legislation and Communication Rights
38:23 Collaboration and Advocacy Strategies
40:10 Fact or Fiction: Disability Rights and Partisanship
42:02 Tip of the Week: Advocacy and Communication
46:01 COPAA's Agenda and Future Goals
51:54 Concluding Thoughts on Advocacy and Inclusion

Friday Nov 07, 2025
Friday Nov 07, 2025
David welcomes Libby Ingram, a dedicated parent and speech therapist profoundly impacted by her experience raising her non-speaking autistic son, John Paul. The podcast delves into the journey of parenting and advocating for children on the autism spectrum, exploring the challenges and breakthroughs associated with innovative communication methods like spelling. Libby shares her personal story, the foundational moments of understanding full-body apraxia, and the unexpected connections and community building that resulted from her relentless advocacy. The episode also highlights the importance of unconditional love, empathy, and the tight-knit community formed through events like Presume Comp Fest, fostering growth and support for non-speakers and their families.
Topics
00:36 Meet Today's Guest: Libby Ingram
02:01 Libby's Journey with Her Son John Paul
05:18 The Telepathy Tapes and John Paul's Abilities
10:08 Challenges and Triumphs in Communication
13:57 The Role of Speech Therapy and Spelling
26:37 The Controversy Around Spelling and ABA
34:38 Discovering Spelling and Its Impact
39:31 Overcoming Educational Barriers
41:56 The Struggles and Triumphs of Spelling
46:00 The Importance of Communication
50:28 Balancing Family Dynamics
56:58 Presume Comp Fest: A Community Gathering
01:12:35 Reflections on Love and Loss
01:15:40 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

Thursday Oct 30, 2025
Thursday Oct 30, 2025
David is joined by Betsy Hicks Russ—mother, advocate, and founder of Autism Odyssey. They discuss the groundbreaking world of non-speaking autism, focusing on intuition, energy communication, and the 'woo-woo' side of autism interaction. Betsy shares her journey from early autism support to founding Autism Odyssey, highlighting diet as a crucial element in managing autism. Additionally, they delve into the potential of non-local communication and the significant impacts of presuming competence in non-speaking individuals. The conversation also touches on their experiences at the Presume Comp Fest, a unique gathering aiming to create unity within the autism community. Tune in for insights, anecdotes, and practical tips for navigating autism as a lifelong journey.
Topics
01:10 Opening the Door to Intuition and Connection
01:26 Betsy Hicks Russ: A Journey Through Autism Advocacy
03:00 The Evolution of Autism Support
06:31 The Gut-Brain Connection and Picky Eating
11:17 The Birth of Autism Odyssey
13:45 Discovering Spelling as Communication
22:22 Exploring Telepathy and Non-Local Communication
28:35 A Surprising Revelation
29:03 Addressing Skepticism and Manipulation
29:59 The Importance of Community and Sharing Experiences
30:24 Planning and Organizing Events
33:37 The Power of Unity and Love
36:27 The Birth of Presume Comp Fest
47:38 Autism Tip of the Week
49:46 Parent Confessions
54:37 Autism Fact or Fiction
57:16 Final Thoughts and Advice for Parents
Topics
01:48 Opening Up About Non-Speaking Children
02:29 Guest Introduction: Betsy Hicks Russ
04:00 Betsy's Journey with Autism
07:20 The Importance of Diet in Autism
12:01 The Creation of Autism Odyssey
14:27 Discovering Spelling Communication
22:40 Exploring Telepathy and Non-Local Communication
28:32 A Surprising Revelation
29:05 Addressing Skepticism and Manipulation
29:59 The Importance of Community and Shared Experiences
32:52 The Birth of Presume Comp Fest
34:41 Unity and the Power of Shared Goals
36:05 The Role of Non-Local Communication
40:40 Planning for the Future
47:05 Autism Tip of the Week
49:12 Parent Confessions
53:52 Autism Fact or Fiction
56:29 Final Thoughts and Advice for Parents
Stone's Autism Advocacy Adventure
David shares a heartfelt recount of his two-week advocacy journey with his non-speaking son Stone. Starting in Atlanta and ending in New York City, David and Stone met with congressional leaders, gave inspiring presentations to professional groups, and connected with non-speaking families at the Presume Competence Fest. The episode highlights their efforts to promote communication rights for non-speakers and the power of direct advocacy. David is joined by fellow podcaster David Yas to reflect on the memorable moments and the impact of their experiences.
Topics
00:00 Starting the Day of Advocacy
01:02 Welcome to the Lighter Side of the Spectrum
01:43 A Special Journey with Stone
03:38 Traveling with Autism
06:11 TSA Cares and Sunflower Program
09:28 Speaking Engagement in Atlanta
15:06 Presume Competence Fest
15:56 Connecting with the Non-Speaking Community
21:37 Fun in Atlanta
22:14 Advocacy on Capitol Hill
24:10 Reflecting on the Journey to Congress
24:37 Meeting with Congresswoman Schreyer
26:26 Highlighting the Spelling Curriculum
27:22 Engaging with Speech Language Pathologists
28:31 Meeting with Senator Cantwell's Office
29:59 Presentation at Berson PR and Communications
30:45 Stone's Bold Statement
34:01 Visiting the Statue of Liberty
34:20 Navigating New York City
36:55 The 9/11 Memorial Visit
37:21 Managing Emotions and Behaviors
42:35 Future Plans and Goals
44:36 Listener Feedback and Engagement

Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
Wednesday Oct 29, 2025
David shares a heartfelt recount of his two-week advocacy journey with his non-speaking son Stone. Starting in Atlanta and ending in New York City, David and Stone met with congressional leaders, gave inspiring presentations to professional groups, and connected with non-speaking families at the Presume Competence Fest. The episode highlights their efforts to promote communication rights for non-speakers and the power of direct advocacy. David is joined by fellow podcaster David Yas to reflect on the memorable moments and the impact of their experiences.
Topics
00:00 Starting the Day of Advocacy
01:02 Welcome to the Lighter Side of the Spectrum
01:43 A Special Journey with Stone
03:38 Traveling with Autism
06:11 TSA Cares and Sunflower Program
09:28 Speaking Engagement in Atlanta
15:06 Presume Competence Fest
15:56 Connecting with the Non-Speaking Community
21:37 Fun in Atlanta
22:14 Advocacy on Capitol Hill
24:10 Reflecting on the Journey to Congress
24:37 Meeting with Congresswoman Schreyer
26:26 Highlighting the Spelling Curriculum
27:22 Engaging with Speech Language Pathologists
28:31 Meeting with Senator Cantwell's Office
29:59 Presentation at Berson PR and Communications
30:45 Stone's Bold Statement
34:01 Visiting the Statue of Liberty
34:20 Navigating New York City
36:55 The 9/11 Memorial Visit
37:21 Managing Emotions and Behaviors
42:35 Future Plans and Goals
44:36 Listener Feedback and Engagement

Friday Sep 26, 2025
Friday Sep 26, 2025
David interviews guest Randy Brandhagen, who shares his family's experience raising three children, including a son diagnosed with autism. The conversation addresses the desperate search for answers, the influences of figures like Andrew Wakefield, and the role of critical thinking in navigating misinformation. Randy also recounts the life-changing moment his son Kade began communicating through the Spelling to Communicate method, profoundly impacting their family's journey. The episode wraps up with reflections on the uniqueness of non-speaking individuals and the detrimental impact of anti-vaccine rhetoric.
Topics
00:43 Discussing Autism Diagnosis
02:00 Randy's Family Background
03:08 Kade's Early Development and Diagnosis
06:41 Exploring Autism Treatments and Theories
19:03 Questioning Established Beliefs
22:51 Kade's Communication and Advocacy
28:23 Challenges and Misconceptions about Vaccines
30:34 Filling the Information Gap
30:48 The Influence of RFK Jr.
31:19 Understanding and Empathy
32:13 The Darker Side of the Spectrum
32:41 A Shift in Perspective
34:06 The Impact of Wakefield and Asha
35:55 Kade's Journey with Spelling
37:47 Breakthroughs and Challenges
40:41 The Role of Sensory Issues
47:38 Misinformation and Opportunism
50:37 The Complexity of Autism
58:04 The Importance of Nuance
01:01:42 Concluding Thoughts

Friday Sep 26, 2025
Friday Sep 26, 2025
David talks with Japhet Stevens, a software developer and father, who created an AI-powered app called Scholarship to help his minimally speaking son, Indigo, with learning and communication through personalized spelling lessons. Japhet discusses the inspiration behind the app, their journey through various spelling methodologies, and how Indigo’s interests and feedback shaped this innovative tool. The episode also touches on the broader implications and potential of AI in education, the importance of giving children agency in their learning, and the ongoing debate around the efficacy of spelling methodologies. The podcast concludes with tips for parents and a glimpse into the future evolution of the Scholarship app.
Topics
00:46 Meet Today's Guest: Japhet Stevens
02:13 Japhet's Journey to Creating Scholarship
03:52 Challenges and Breakthroughs in Spelling Lessons
07:00 Homeschooling and Alternative Education
11:15 Developing the Scholarship App
23:27 Live Demo of the Scholarship App
33:41 Creating Custom Lessons with AI
34:18 Engaging Students with Personalized Content
37:35 Subscription Model and App Features
39:25 Future Vision and Development Plans
41:50 Community Support and Feedback
45:46 Weekly Segment: Tip of the Week
49:53 Debunking Myths: Does Spelling Work?
56:03 Parent Confessions: Vulnerability and Hope
01:03:37 Closing Remarks and Future Plans

Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Thursday Sep 11, 2025
David explores the nuanced world of advocacy and entitlement with guest Shannon Striner. Shannon, a devoted mother and blogger, shares her journey raising her daughter Sienna, who has Down Syndrome. They discuss the challenges of finding the right educational environment, the importance of advocating without slipping into entitlement, and the powerful impact of inclusion and innovation in creating better outcomes. Shannon's practical tips and poignant reflections offer inspiration and guidance for families navigating similar paths.
More at https://thislifewegot.com/
Topics
00:48 Exploring Advocacy vs. Entitlement
01:22 Meet Shannon Striner: A Fierce Advocate
02:37 Navigating the School System
06:39 Challenges in Private vs. Public Schools
11:35 Fighting for Inclusive Education
23:47 The Thin Line Between Advocacy and Entitlement
32:42 Navigating Financial Assistance for Families
33:05 The Emotional Struggles of Acceptance
33:59 The Importance of Utilizing Available Resources
36:29 Healthcare Costs and Insurance Limitations
38:00 Advocating for Medicaid and State Programs
38:43 Balancing Work and Caregiving
39:50 Learning and Implementing New Communication Strategies
41:31 The Power of Advocacy and Community Support
45:06 Tip of the Week: Daily Communication Logs
48:48 Fact or Fiction: Debunking Myths About Down Syndrome
52:35 Parent Confessions: Resentment and Gratitude
57:45 The Intersection of Politics and Disability Advocacy
01:02:43 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
