The David Kaufer Podcast: The Lighter Side of the Spectrum
Welcome to “The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,” a podcast where we explore how to find joy, connection, and growth while navigating the challenges of parenting kids and teens on the autism spectrum. Hosted by David Kaufer, father of a 19-year-old non-speaking autistic son, this podcast offers a fresh, uplifting perspective on life with autism—focusing on the moments of triumph as well as the obstacles.David’s son was unable to communicate reliably until he was almost 17, when they discovered and began using the spelling methodology that profoundly changed his life. His inspiring journey from silence to communication serves as a beacon of hope for anyone needing encouragement in the autism community.In addition to sharing his personal experiences, David tackles broader issues, such as building inclusion into healthcare practices to ensure those on the spectrum receive compassionate, competent care. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or professional, join us for light-hearted discussions...
Episodes

21 hours ago
21 hours ago
David Kaufer and producer Dave Yas discuss the controversial comments made by RFK Jr., the Secretary of Health and Human Services, regarding autism. They explore the impact of his rhetoric on the autism community, the divisiveness it has caused, and examine the broader issues surrounding autism diagnosis, support, and services. David and Dave delve into their personal experiences as parents of children on the autism spectrum, debunk myths, and highlight the importance of genuine support from public figures and policymakers. The episode emphasizes the need for informed, nuanced discussions about autism and encourages listeners to advocate for better services and support.
Topics
01:59 Diving into Controversy: RFK Jr.'s Press Conference
03:17 Personal Stories: Parenting on the Spectrum
05:26 The Impact of RFK Jr.'s Statements
14:43 The Vaccine Debate and Autism
23:27 Challenges in Autism Diagnosis
25:02 Future Guest Announcement
25:34 The Autism Treatment Industry
26:07 Questioning Motives and Interests
29:37 Critique of RFK Junior's Approach

6 days ago
6 days ago
David discusses the critical topic of water safety for children on the autism spectrum with guest Dayna Harvey. Dayna is the founder of the Swim Safety with Miss Dayna program. She shares her journey from Vancouver to Roanoke, Virginia, and highlights her innovative approaches to teaching water safety, especially for neurodivergent children. The episode emphasizes the high drowning risks among autistic children and the lack of necessary certifications in swim instruction. Dayna introduces her Waiting Whales Water Safety Kit, a tool designed to teach children to wait safely around water. She stresses the importance of proper swim lesson structures and offers practical advice for parents seeking swim programs. The episode aims to provide hope, support, and actionable strategies to prevent drownings and ensure the safety of all children.
Topics
00:55 Today's Urgent Topic: Water Safety and Autism
01:32 Meet Dayna Harvey: Swim Safety Advocate
02:35 Dayna's Journey and Experience
05:41 Challenges and Misconceptions in Water Safety
09:34 The Importance of Vigilance and Structured Learning
16:33 Innovative Approaches to Water Safety
23:56 Introduction to the Water Safety Kit
24:00 Using Barricade Tape for Water Safety
26:25 Creating Safe Zones Around Water
28:03 The Importance of Consistency and Visual Tools
28:23 Introducing Jackson's Blue Kickboard
29:16 Building Waiting Skills with the Kickboard
31:03 Availability and Importance of the Water Safety Kit
33:31 Tip of the Week: Choosing the Right Swim Program
37:57 Autism Fact or Fiction: Swimming Edition
41:40 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
David welcomes Lila, the Director of Human AI Integration Strategy at KDMC, to discuss the innovative ways AI can support neurodivergent individuals. They delve into the impact of brain enhancement therapy, illustrate the profound relationship between AI and non-speaking autistic individuals, and share personal stories highlighting AI's role in emotional and communication support. Key segments include an exploration of AI myths, impactful listener questions, and a special appearance by David's son, Stone, who shares his transformative experience with AI. The episode offers a unique perspective on blending technology with empathy to create inclusive and meaningful connections.
Topics
00:51 Meet Lila: Director of Human AI Integration Strategy
02:59 Exploring Brain Enhancement Therapy
07:03 The Role of AI in Emotional Processing
11:10 Parallels Between Non-Speakers and AI
14:56 AI's Potential in Supporting Non-Speaking Autistics
20:02 Autism Fact or Fiction: AI Edition
22:32 Parent Confessions: Using AI with My Son
27:05 Introducing AI to Neurodivergent Individuals
36:13 Closing Thoughts on AI and Connection

Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
David welcomes Rachel Maeroff, a dedicated advocate who has spent 25 years supporting autistic individuals. They dive into the often-overlooked issue of burnout, not just for parents but also for practitioners, therapists, and educators. Rachel shares her personal journey, insights on recognizing and managing burnout, and the importance of setting boundaries and seeking community support. The episode also features a new segment, 'Parent Confessions,' and practical tips for avoiding burnout. Join the conversation and discover strategies for finding joy, meaning, and sustainable ways to support both loved ones and ourselves.
Topics
00:45 Today's Topic: Burnout in the Autism Community
01:03 Guest Introduction: Rachel Maeroff
01:15 Rachel's Journey and Career
01:24 Discovering Spelling to Communicate
03:57 Challenges and Innovations in ABA
06:28 Transition to Nutrition and Corporate Wellness
06:49 Reconnecting and New Discoveries
14:28 Understanding Burnout and Spoon Theory
20:23 Balancing Passion and Self-Care
25:49 The Isolation Factor in Parenting Neurodivergent Children
26:50 The Role of Online Communities
28:29 Discovering Neurodivergence in Adulthood
30:28 Challenges of High Masking and Low Support Needs
32:59 Parent Confessions: Embracing the Chaos
37:38 Avoiding Burnout: Tips and Strategies
43:45 Finding Joy and Community
47:04 Autism Fact or Fiction: Burnout Edition
48:41 Wrapping Up: Building a Supportive Community

Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
The guest is Patrice Archer, CEO and co-founder of SenLife, an AI-driven platform designed to support families navigating neurodivergent care. They discuss the app's ability to capture daily data and provide insights that help shorten the time to diagnosis and improve communication with schools and healthcare providers. Patrice shares his personal journey and the impact of early intervention and community support in managing neurodivergence. The episode also explores the potential of AI in understanding and supporting neurodivergent individuals, emphasizing the importance of collaboration among caregivers.
Topics
00:39 The Importance of Community
00:59 Exploring AI in Neurodivergent Care
01:16 Meet Patrice Archer and SenLife
03:00 Personal Journey and Motivation
03:40 Challenges in Neurodivergent Care
05:15 How SenLife Works
06:15 Daily Data and AI Insights
07:41 Practical Uses and Future Developments
18:15 The Role of AI in Personal Support
23:27 The Power of Data and AI
24:08 Personal Stories and Technological Evolution
24:51 The Dark Side of Technology
26:43 Community and Autism Support
31:00 The Importance of Early Intervention
39:18 Unlocking Potential Through Communication
42:54 The Future of Autism Support and Employment
45:38 Conclusion and App Information

Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
Wednesday Mar 05, 2025
Host David Kaufer and producer David Yas delve into the controversy surrounding the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA) and their stance against the Spelling to Communicate (S2C) methodology. The discussion highlights how ASHA's opposition impacts non-speakers, including Kaufer's son, Stone, who experienced a breakthrough using S2C. The hosts explore the potential motives behind ASHA's position, the legal implications, and the grassroots efforts to promote inclusive communication methods. This episode serves as a call to action for parents, educators, and advocates to challenge ASHA's stance and push for the recognition of effective communication rights for all.
Topics
01:02 Today's Topic: ASHA and Communication Rights
02:18 Personal Stories and Experiences
04:07 Challenges with ASHA's Position
11:03 Financial and Legal Implications
12:43 Technical Difficulties and Resuming Discussion
15:02 Exploring Potential Conspiracies
20:47 Court Rules and Hypnosis
21:33 Risks and Benefits in Healthcare
22:13 Presuming Competence in Autism
25:34 Challenges with Bureaucracy
27:09 Scientific Research and Funding
29:03 The Impact of Communication Methods
35:40 Call to Action for Parents and Community
40:39 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
David talks with Meghann Parkinson, a practice spelling practitioner who has been instrumental in helping non-speaking individuals communicate. They discuss Meghann's unique journey from working in a hair salon to becoming a critical member of the non-speaking community, particularly through the S2C (Spelling to Communicate) method. The conversation covers how Meghann integrates fun and games into communication practice, the importance of presuming competence, and the profound impact her work has had on families, including David's own son, Stone. Practical insights on the progression of learning to spell, the science and philosophy behind the method, and the role of emotional and cognitive support in this journey, make this episode a deep dive into the transformative power of effective communication strategies for non-speakers.
Topics
00:31 Meet Meghann Parkinson: A Key Family Member
02:04 The Journey of Spelling to Communicate
03:52 Meghann's Background and Entry into S2C
09:28 Challenges and Biases in the Field
11:21 The Importance of Presuming Competence
17:20 The Process of Learning to Spell
25:31 Challenges with Communication Methods
27:37 Progression with Letter Boards
29:04 Transformative Moments in Communication
31:20 Understanding Non-Speakers
34:24 Autism Fact or Fiction
36:41 Q&A with Meg
42:36 Tip of the Week: Fun and Games
44:30 Closing Remarks and Future Guests

Wednesday Feb 19, 2025
Wednesday Feb 19, 2025
In this episode of 'The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,' David sits down with Maike Preißing, a neurodivergent psychologist and artist, to delve into the world of synesthesia and neurodiversity. Maike explains her personal experiences with synesthesia, a phenomenon where the senses cross in extraordinary ways, leading to unique sensory experiences such as seeing colors when hearing music or feeling pain. They discuss the genetic components, common misconceptions, and the significant overlap between synesthesia and autism, particularly highlighting its high occurrence within the autistic community. The conversation underscores the importance of understanding and validating neurodivergent experiences. Additionally, David shares personal insights from his son, Stone, who also experiences synesthesia. The episode provides valuable resources and tips for parents and educators to better understand and support neurodiverse individuals.
Topics
00:29 Meet Maike Preißing: Neurodivergent Psychologist
00:49 Understanding Synesthesia
02:10 The Science Behind Synesthesia
06:47 Synesthesia and Autism Connection
14:48 Sensory Sensitivities and Emotional Regulation
19:32 Exploring Food Sensitivities
22:18 Discovering Synesthesia in Childhood
24:57 Visualizing Music and Pain
28:38 Common Misconceptions About Synesthesia
30:33 Fact or Fiction: Debunking Myths
31:39 Understanding Synesthesia vs. Hallucination
32:42 Encouraging Empathy and Reducing Stigma
33:58 Fact or Fiction: The Rarity of Synesthesia
34:31 Exploring Mirror Pain and Mirror Touch Synesthesia
36:28 The Non-Speaking World and Heightened Sensitivities
44:53 Supporting Communication for Non-Speakers
57:49 The Synesthesia Tree: A Valuable Resource
01:01:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
Wednesday Feb 12, 2025
David welcomes guest Rebecca Engle, an inspirational author, advocate, and educator specializing in special education and autism awareness. Rebecca shares her journey from being a nonverbal child to becoming an accomplished professional advocating for inclusive education. The discussion covers her book 'Step Into My Shoes,' her perspectives on special education law, and her volunteer work with the Alliance Against Seclusion and Restraint. Rebecca provides valuable insights into the challenges and opportunities in creating inclusive school environments and offers practical tips for supporting autistic individuals. The episode also explores Rebecca’s personal interests in knitting and her mission to drive impactful change in the field of autism education and advocacy.
Topics
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:31 Meet Rebecca Engle: Advocate and Educator
01:46 Rebecca's Personal Journey
03:37 Challenges and Triumphs in Communication
07:21 The Impact of Diet on Autism
08:58 Rebecca's Book: Step Into My Shoes
12:54 Special Education Law and Advocacy
16:04 Creating Inclusive School Environments
25:00 Autism Tip of the Week
26:43 Autism Fact or Fiction
28:18 Rebecca's Volunteering and Personal Interests
33:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
David interviews Renee Chaffee, a licensed speech-language pathologist and certified S2C practitioner. Together, they delve into Renee's journey from an ABA tutor in Canada to establishing her practice in Las Vegas while championing unconventional communication methods for non-speaking individuals. The discussion covers the mechanics of Spelling to Communicate (S2C), early intervention strategies, the importance of presuming competence, and the limitations of traditional AAC methods. The episode also includes a 'Tip of the Week' on the power of listening and an 'Autism Fact or Fiction' segment debunking myths about non-speaking individuals' literacy. The episode concludes with a call for more inclusive and understanding approaches toward individuals on the autism spectrum.
Topics
00:35 Meet Renee Chaffee: A Journey in Speech Language Pathology
01:37 Renee's Early Career and ABA Tutoring
03:54 Transition to Las Vegas and School District Work
07:41 Challenges and Successes in Early Intervention
10:53 Discovering Spelling to Communicate (S2C)
17:20 Understanding Apraxia and Communication Challenges
23:47 The Role of Motor Skills in Communication
29:04 Understanding the Importance of Spelling
29:39 Creative Writing and Motor Control
30:44 The Role of Regulation in Learning
32:04 Building Trust and Communication
35:50 The Presumption of Competence
38:13 Challenges and Misconceptions in Education
41:07 The Evolution of Communication Methods
43:54 Supporting Communication and Autonomy
46:20 Tip of the Week: Listening and Intelligence
50:07 Autism Fact or Fiction: Spelling and Literacy
01:00:02 Conclusion and Future Discussions