The David Kaufer Podcast: The Lighter Side of the Spectrum

Autism Advocacy with Crystal Jordan

In this episode of 'The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,' host David Kaufer delves into the heart and humor of parenting kids and teens on the autism spectrum. David is joined by Crystal Jordan, co-founder of Becoming Her Magazine and a passionate autism advocate. Crystal shares her personal journey of advocacy, which began with writing her book 'Just Like You' to represent Black children with autism. The conversation covers Crystal's experiences with her son's diagnosis, how she became an unintentional advocate, and her insights into the importance of inclusivity in customer service. She also offers valuable advice for autism parents, emphasizing the significance of self-care. Tune in for touching stories, practical tips, and a deeper understanding of autism advocacy.
 
More on Crystal at https://www.becominghermagazine.com/
 
Topics
 
00:54 Special Guest: Crystal Jordan
01:38 Crystal's Advocacy Journey
03:40 Personal Stories and Experiences
04:02 Navigating Diagnosis and Early Intervention
12:00 Challenges and Triumphs in Communication
20:43 Personal Reflections and Early Social Media Influences
21:41 Unlocking Potential and Overcoming Doubts
22:43 Advocacy and Effective IEP Strategies
26:07 Supporting the Show and Professional Services
27:43 Autism Tip of the Week: Self-Care for Parents
30:41 Autism Fact or Fiction: Dispelling Myths
34:56 Promoting Autism Awareness in the Workplace
39:10 Crystal Jordan's Advocacy and Resources
40:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Insights and Hope with Rich DeCicco

David is joined by Rich DeCicco to discuss the ups and downs of parenting autistic children. Rich shares his personal journey, the challenges he's faced, and his mission to help other parents through evidence-based strategies. From handling unexpected meltdowns to repairing relationships and understanding that behavior is communication, this episode offers valuable insights for any parent raising neurodivergent kids. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, proper communication, and practical strategies that have worked for Rich's family. Tune in for an enlightening discussion filled with real-life stories, expert advice, and a hopeful outlook on the future of parenting on the autism spectrum.
 
Topics
 
01:43 Rich's Parenting Journey
03:20 Facing the Autism Diagnosis
05:03 Navigating Parenting Challenges During the Pandemic
05:42 Developing Strategies and Seeing Progress
07:11 Goals and Social Skills Development
09:01 Role-Playing and Handling Surprises
11:44 Parental Self-Improvement and Modeling Behavior
16:26 Communication Challenges and Breakthroughs
21:06 Dealing with Parenting Stress and Vulnerability
23:36 Repairing Relationships and Self-Forgiveness
27:11 Repairing Relationships with Your Child
27:57 The Importance of Apologizing
28:23 Reflecting on Childhood
29:25 Parenting Approaches and Changes
30:00 Safety and Boundaries
30:36 Handling Mistakes and Repairs
34:57 Understanding Behavior as Communication
35:37 Journaling and Identifying Triggers
38:36 Empathy and Perspective in Parenting
39:32 Proactive Communication with Schools
41:10 Autism Fact or Fiction
43:46 Personal Stories and Experiences
48:10 Coaching and Resources for Parents
51:13 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Invisible Disabilities with Michelle Steiner

In this episode of 'The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,' David welcomes Michelle Steiner, a writer, photographer, and paraeducator who has defied expectations despite her invisible learning disability. Michelle shares her journey from being diagnosed in kindergarten to overcoming educational and social challenges. She discusses the misconceptions surrounding invisible disabilities and emphasizes the importance of advocacy, perseverance, and the support systems that helped her succeed. Michelle's insights offer valuable lessons for parents, educators, and individuals navigating similar paths.
Topics
00:34 Living with an Invisible Disability
00:55 Michelle Steiner's Journey
02:12 Early Challenges and Diagnosis
03:32 Understanding Dyscalculia
05:33 Support Systems and Advocacy
07:22 Academic and Social Struggles
09:58 College and Career Aspirations
20:01 Encouraging Self-Advocacy
25:27 Advice for Parents and Caregivers
27:28 Autism Fact or Fiction
28:48 Conclusion and Resources

Empowering Neurodivergent People with Megan Kohler

David talks with Megan Kohler, founder of Megan Kohler Consulting and Penn State professor, to discuss improving higher education opportunities for neurodivergent individuals. They explore the journey of learning design, neurodiversity, and Kohler’s extensive work in making education more accessible. The conversation highlights the significance of blended learning and technology, addresses the misconceptions around neurodivergence, and shares personal experiences and practical tips for parents and educators. Kohler emphasizes the need for better support systems and understanding within educational environments.
 
Topics
 
00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
01:32 Megan's Journey into Learning Design
02:08 Understanding Learning Design
04:57 Effective Learning Strategies
08:44 Personal Stories and Neurodivergence
13:41 Challenges in Diagnosis and Support
15:55 Supporting Neurodivergent Students in Higher Education
20:57 Promoting Awareness and Change
22:30 Neuro-Inclusive Standards for Faculty
23:49 Current State of Neurodiversity in Education
25:36 Student Feedback and Faculty Awareness
27:03 Tip of the Week: Apollo Neuro
31:52 Tip of the Week: Reframing for Productivity
40:12 Fact or Fiction: Autism and Communication
44:52 Concluding Thoughts and Future Topics

Inclusive Education: Breaking Barriers with Tony Beals

The guest is Tony Beals, VP of Admissions and Enrollment Solutions at Brightmind Academy. David and Tony  discuss the challenges parents of autistic children face in traditional public schools and the benefits of alternative education models. Tony shares his journey from a public school teacher to an advocate for individualized education at Brightmont Academy, where he emphasizes personalized learning and building confidence in neurodiverse students. They also touch on financial aspects, legal requirements, and the importance of exploring all educational options for the best fit. The episode concludes with practical tips for parents and a look into various student engagement activities available at Brightmont.
 
Topics
 
00:32 Meet Tony Beals from Bright Mind Academy
02:10 Tony's Journey in Education
02:59 The Brightmont Academy Approach
07:52 Stone's Story: A Real-World Example
17:58 Fact or Fiction: Public School Requirements
19:55 Transparency Issues in Education
20:19 Alternative Education Options
20:53 Socialization in One-to-One Education
25:35 Hiring and Curriculum at Brightmont
31:57 Parental Advice and Options
33:40 Cost and Financial Considerations
36:23 Concluding Thoughts on Autism and Education

Embracing Neurodiversity With Rosemary White

David welcomes experienced occupational therapist Rosemary White. They discuss the importance of finding joy and connection while parenting kids on the autism spectrum. Rosemary shares her journey in pediatric physical and occupational therapy, the principles of DIR Floor Time, and the significance of focusing on relationships and strengths over deficits. The episode further explores the sensory sensitivities of autistic children, the concept of motor challenges, and the evolving understanding and acceptance of neurodiversity. Rosemary also highlights useful resources for parents and advocates for a relationship-based approach to therapy.
 
Links
David:
www.davidkaufer.com
www.kaufermarketing.com
 
Rosemary:
https://rosemarywhitepediatricservices.com/
 
Topics
 
01:07 Meet Our Guest: Rosemary White
03:20 Rosemary's Journey in Occupational Therapy
07:13 Understanding DIR Floor Time
15:54 Sensory Perspectives and Challenges
26:11 Tips and Tricks for Parents
29:17 Advocacy and Community Support
40:03 Conclusion and Resources

Sam Mitchell: Rockin’ and Rollin’ on the Spectrum

David welcomes Sam Mitchell, an autistic entrepreneur, motivational speaker, podcaster, and TED Talk presenter. Sam shares insights on his journey, including how he started his podcast 'Autism Rocks and Rolls,' the success it's garnered, and his upcoming speaking engagements. The conversation delves into the misconceptions about autism, tips for parents of autistic children, and the importance of routine for individuals on the spectrum. Sam also discusses his love for music, wrestling, and his aversion to large crowds, offering a personal glimpse into his experiences and perspectives.
 
Links
David:
www.davidkaufer.com
www.kaufermarketing.com
 
Sam:
https://autismrocksandrolls.com/
 
Topics
 
00:35 Meet Sam Mitchell: The Multifaceted Entrepreneur
01:38 Sam's Journey and Inspirations
03:04 Insights on Autism and Education
08:12 Music and Social Preferences
11:34 Wrestling and Public Events
14:18 Autism Myths: Fact or Fiction
18:22 Sam's Nonprofit and Future Plans
20:36 Tip of the Week and Final Thoughts
 

Andrew Milivojevich: From Early Diagnosis to Hope and Inclusion

David welcomes his friend and expert guest, Andrew Milivojevich. They discuss Andrew's journey with his autistic son, Nicholas, from early diagnosis to finding effective therapies and support systems. Key topics include the importance of early intervention, dietary considerations, motor impairments, social activities, and the critical role of presuming competence. Andrew also shares his experience in supporting Nicholas's aspirations as a book author and highlights innovative research and technological developments in autism care. The episode emphasizes the power of community, partnership, and unwavering advocacy in enhancing the lives of children with autism.
 
Topics
 
00:31 Meet Andrew Milivojevich
01:42 Andrew's Autism Journey with His Son
02:14 Early Diagnosis and Intervention
06:17 The Importance of Diet and Digestion
10:19 Motor Impairment and Autism
21:05 Skiing and Other Activities for Kids with Autism
22:52 Tip of the Week: Presume Competence
25:37 A Picnic Story: Inclusion in Action
26:48 Nicholas the Author: Inspiring Journey
29:58 Communication Before Spelling
32:18 Autism Fact or Fiction: Divorce Rates
35:43 Stages of Spelling: A Parent's Perspective
41:02 The Importance of Community and Support
43:05 Conclusion and Future Discussions

Navigating Autism Advocacy with Kim Kredich

David welcomes Kim Kredich to share her journey of advocating for children with disabilities, including her own son diagnosed with autism. Kim discusses her extensive experience in educational inclusion, her training to become a Spelling to Communicate (S2C) practitioner, and the importance of the ADA in fighting for the rights of non-speaking individuals. She also offers insights into the challenges and triumphs of raising a child on the autism spectrum, highlighting the emotional and logistical complexities. The episode concludes with a lighter touch, sharing personal anecdotes and tips for parents.Topics00:38 Meet Kim Kredich: Advocate and Mother02:11 The Spellers Community and Legal Battles03:45 Success Stories and Advocacy Strategies06:27 Challenges and Triumphs in Communication08:20 The Value of Different Therapies12:57 Personal Stories and Experiences18:01 A Memorable Road Trip22:16 Fractional CMO Services and Marketing Support22:59 Heartfelt Reflections on Ben's Life23:17 Ben's Achievements and Independence25:23 Tragic Incident and Its Aftermath26:28 Honoring Ben's Legacy30:50 Advocacy and Practitioner Training34:38 Tips of the Week for Autism Parents39:47 Upcoming Events and Final Thoughts

Exploring Advocacy with Arzu Forough

In this episode of 'The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,' host David Kaufer speaks with Arzu Forough,, President and CEO of the Washington Autism Alliance. Arzu shares her journey advocating for inclusive healthcare, education, and services for people with autism and other intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDDs) in Washington State. They discuss the challenges and successes in ensuring comprehensive insurance benefits, the distinction between advocacy and activism, and the importance of individualized education plans (IEPs). Arzu also touches on the ongoing need for adult services and employment programs for individuals on the autism spectrum. The episode highlights the importance of presuming competence and the systemic barriers faced by the autism community.Links:https://washingtonautismalliance.org/www.davidkaufer.comTopics00:29 Meet Arzu Forough: Advocate and Leader01:20 The Journey to Advocacy03:54 Challenges and Triumphs in Washington State08:18 The Difference Between Advocacy and Activism12:38 Insurance Advocacy and Broader Impact17:25 Navigating the Special Education Maze22:15 Challenges in Educating Diverse Learners22:38 Partnering with Parents and Consultants23:20 Personal Experiences with School Districts23:59 Supporting the Show and Services Offered24:58 Educators vs. Administrators27:26 The Importance of Knowing and Fighting for Rights28:43 Communication Barriers and Misunderstandings31:44 The Impact of Segregation in Education32:29 Transition Programs and Post-Secondary Pathways34:57 Employment Opportunities for Neurodiverse Individuals36:13 Myth Busting: Common Misconceptions About Autism41:58 Resources and Support from Washington Autism Alliance43:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts