The David Kaufer Podcast: The Lighter Side of the Spectrum
Welcome to “The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,” a podcast where we explore how to find joy, connection, and growth while navigating the challenges of parenting kids and teens on the autism spectrum. Hosted by David Kaufer, father of a 19-year-old non-speaking autistic son, this podcast offers a fresh, uplifting perspective on life with autism—focusing on the moments of triumph as well as the obstacles.David’s son was unable to communicate reliably until he was almost 17, when they discovered and began using the spelling methodology that profoundly changed his life. His inspiring journey from silence to communication serves as a beacon of hope for anyone needing encouragement in the autism community.In addition to sharing his personal experiences, David tackles broader issues, such as building inclusion into healthcare practices to ensure those on the spectrum receive compassionate, competent care. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or professional, join us for light-hearted discussions...
Episodes

Tuesday Jan 07, 2025
Tuesday Jan 07, 2025
David talks with Megan Kohler, founder of Megan Kohler Consulting and Penn State professor, to discuss improving higher education opportunities for neurodivergent individuals. They explore the journey of learning design, neurodiversity, and Kohler’s extensive work in making education more accessible. The conversation highlights the significance of blended learning and technology, addresses the misconceptions around neurodivergence, and shares personal experiences and practical tips for parents and educators. Kohler emphasizes the need for better support systems and understanding within educational environments.
Topics
00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
01:32 Megan's Journey into Learning Design
02:08 Understanding Learning Design
04:57 Effective Learning Strategies
08:44 Personal Stories and Neurodivergence
13:41 Challenges in Diagnosis and Support
15:55 Supporting Neurodivergent Students in Higher Education
20:57 Promoting Awareness and Change
22:30 Neuro-Inclusive Standards for Faculty
23:49 Current State of Neurodiversity in Education
25:36 Student Feedback and Faculty Awareness
27:03 Tip of the Week: Apollo Neuro
31:52 Tip of the Week: Reframing for Productivity
40:12 Fact or Fiction: Autism and Communication
44:52 Concluding Thoughts and Future Topics

Friday Jan 03, 2025
Friday Jan 03, 2025
The guest is Tony Beals, VP of Admissions and Enrollment Solutions at Brightmind Academy. David and Tony discuss the challenges parents of autistic children face in traditional public schools and the benefits of alternative education models. Tony shares his journey from a public school teacher to an advocate for individualized education at Brightmont Academy, where he emphasizes personalized learning and building confidence in neurodiverse students. They also touch on financial aspects, legal requirements, and the importance of exploring all educational options for the best fit. The episode concludes with practical tips for parents and a look into various student engagement activities available at Brightmont.
Topics
00:32 Meet Tony Beals from Bright Mind Academy
02:10 Tony's Journey in Education
02:59 The Brightmont Academy Approach
07:52 Stone's Story: A Real-World Example
17:58 Fact or Fiction: Public School Requirements
19:55 Transparency Issues in Education
20:19 Alternative Education Options
20:53 Socialization in One-to-One Education
25:35 Hiring and Curriculum at Brightmont
31:57 Parental Advice and Options
33:40 Cost and Financial Considerations
36:23 Concluding Thoughts on Autism and Education

Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
David welcomes experienced occupational therapist Rosemary White. They discuss the importance of finding joy and connection while parenting kids on the autism spectrum. Rosemary shares her journey in pediatric physical and occupational therapy, the principles of DIR Floor Time, and the significance of focusing on relationships and strengths over deficits. The episode further explores the sensory sensitivities of autistic children, the concept of motor challenges, and the evolving understanding and acceptance of neurodiversity. Rosemary also highlights useful resources for parents and advocates for a relationship-based approach to therapy.
Links
David:
www.davidkaufer.com
www.kaufermarketing.com
Rosemary:
https://rosemarywhitepediatricservices.com/
Topics
01:07 Meet Our Guest: Rosemary White
03:20 Rosemary's Journey in Occupational Therapy
07:13 Understanding DIR Floor Time
15:54 Sensory Perspectives and Challenges
26:11 Tips and Tricks for Parents
29:17 Advocacy and Community Support
40:03 Conclusion and Resources

Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
David welcomes Sam Mitchell, an autistic entrepreneur, motivational speaker, podcaster, and TED Talk presenter. Sam shares insights on his journey, including how he started his podcast 'Autism Rocks and Rolls,' the success it's garnered, and his upcoming speaking engagements. The conversation delves into the misconceptions about autism, tips for parents of autistic children, and the importance of routine for individuals on the spectrum. Sam also discusses his love for music, wrestling, and his aversion to large crowds, offering a personal glimpse into his experiences and perspectives.
Links
David:
www.davidkaufer.com
www.kaufermarketing.com
Sam:
https://autismrocksandrolls.com/
Topics
00:35 Meet Sam Mitchell: The Multifaceted Entrepreneur
01:38 Sam's Journey and Inspirations
03:04 Insights on Autism and Education
08:12 Music and Social Preferences
11:34 Wrestling and Public Events
14:18 Autism Myths: Fact or Fiction
18:22 Sam's Nonprofit and Future Plans
20:36 Tip of the Week and Final Thoughts

Thursday Dec 12, 2024
Thursday Dec 12, 2024
David welcomes his friend and expert guest, Andrew Milivojevich. They discuss Andrew's journey with his autistic son, Nicholas, from early diagnosis to finding effective therapies and support systems. Key topics include the importance of early intervention, dietary considerations, motor impairments, social activities, and the critical role of presuming competence. Andrew also shares his experience in supporting Nicholas's aspirations as a book author and highlights innovative research and technological developments in autism care. The episode emphasizes the power of community, partnership, and unwavering advocacy in enhancing the lives of children with autism.
Topics
00:31 Meet Andrew Milivojevich
01:42 Andrew's Autism Journey with His Son
02:14 Early Diagnosis and Intervention
06:17 The Importance of Diet and Digestion
10:19 Motor Impairment and Autism
21:05 Skiing and Other Activities for Kids with Autism
22:52 Tip of the Week: Presume Competence
25:37 A Picnic Story: Inclusion in Action
26:48 Nicholas the Author: Inspiring Journey
29:58 Communication Before Spelling
32:18 Autism Fact or Fiction: Divorce Rates
35:43 Stages of Spelling: A Parent's Perspective
41:02 The Importance of Community and Support
43:05 Conclusion and Future Discussions

Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
David welcomes Kim Kredich to share her journey of advocating for children with disabilities, including her own son diagnosed with autism. Kim discusses her extensive experience in educational inclusion, her training to become a Spelling to Communicate (S2C) practitioner, and the importance of the ADA in fighting for the rights of non-speaking individuals. She also offers insights into the challenges and triumphs of raising a child on the autism spectrum, highlighting the emotional and logistical complexities. The episode concludes with a lighter touch, sharing personal anecdotes and tips for parents.Topics00:38 Meet Kim Kredich: Advocate and Mother02:11 The Spellers Community and Legal Battles03:45 Success Stories and Advocacy Strategies06:27 Challenges and Triumphs in Communication08:20 The Value of Different Therapies12:57 Personal Stories and Experiences18:01 A Memorable Road Trip22:16 Fractional CMO Services and Marketing Support22:59 Heartfelt Reflections on Ben's Life23:17 Ben's Achievements and Independence25:23 Tragic Incident and Its Aftermath26:28 Honoring Ben's Legacy30:50 Advocacy and Practitioner Training34:38 Tips of the Week for Autism Parents39:47 Upcoming Events and Final Thoughts

Tuesday Nov 26, 2024
Tuesday Nov 26, 2024
In this episode of 'The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,' host David Kaufer speaks with Arzu Forough,, President and CEO of the Washington Autism Alliance. Arzu shares her journey advocating for inclusive healthcare, education, and services for people with autism and other intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDDs) in Washington State. They discuss the challenges and successes in ensuring comprehensive insurance benefits, the distinction between advocacy and activism, and the importance of individualized education plans (IEPs). Arzu also touches on the ongoing need for adult services and employment programs for individuals on the autism spectrum. The episode highlights the importance of presuming competence and the systemic barriers faced by the autism community.Links:https://washingtonautismalliance.org/www.davidkaufer.comTopics00:29 Meet Arzu Forough: Advocate and Leader01:20 The Journey to Advocacy03:54 Challenges and Triumphs in Washington State08:18 The Difference Between Advocacy and Activism12:38 Insurance Advocacy and Broader Impact17:25 Navigating the Special Education Maze22:15 Challenges in Educating Diverse Learners22:38 Partnering with Parents and Consultants23:20 Personal Experiences with School Districts23:59 Supporting the Show and Services Offered24:58 Educators vs. Administrators27:26 The Importance of Knowing and Fighting for Rights28:43 Communication Barriers and Misunderstandings31:44 The Impact of Segregation in Education32:29 Transition Programs and Post-Secondary Pathways34:57 Employment Opportunities for Neurodiverse Individuals36:13 Myth Busting: Common Misconceptions About Autism41:58 Resources and Support from Washington Autism Alliance43:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Wednesday Nov 20, 2024
Wednesday Nov 20, 2024
In this episode of The Lighter Side of the Spectrum, host David Kaufer introduces listeners to Elizabeth Zielinski, founder and advocate of Commonwealth Education Group. They discuss the challenges and rewards of parenting children on the autism spectrum, emphasizing the importance of community and shared experiences. Elizabeth shares her personal journey with her son Evan, including the impactful moment when he communicated through spelling. Their discussion covers insights into special education, advocacy, and the evolving understanding of autism within society. Both David and Elizabeth highlight the necessity of rethinking educational paths and the value of loving learning. Their conversation is a testament to the power of hope, determination, and the support of a caring community.Topics00:41 Guest Introduction: Elizabeth Zielinski02:53 Elizabeth's Journey with Autism03:32 The Power of Communication: Spelling to Communicate13:12 Navigating Community and Support Systems21:30 Challenges in Public Education and Advocacy26:10 Supporting the Podcast and Final Thoughts27:35 Understanding the Role of an Advocate29:12 Personal Journey and Motivation30:30 Challenges and Surprises in Advocacy31:38 Systemic Issues and Personal Experiences33:43 Navigating Education and Opportunities39:50 The Importance of Lifelong Learning47:53 Future Prospects and Optimism51:18 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

Monday Nov 18, 2024
Monday Nov 18, 2024
This episode of 'The Lighter Side of the Spectrum' introduces host David Kaufer and his son, Stone, who has autism and is non-speaking. David shares their personal journey, underscoring the transformative power of spelling as a communication method for Stone. The podcast aims to provide hope and inspiration for parents of autistic children by showcasing Stone's incredible growth and intelligence. Stone himself shares his experiences and thoughts through his unique communication methods, offering insights into his life, interests, and aspirations. The episode emphasizes the importance of inclusion, understanding, and the potential within every individual.Topics00:27 Meet the Host and Inspiration01:16 Stone's Diagnosis and Early Journey01:42 Discovering the Spelling Methodology05:27 Stone's Current Life and Achievements07:44 Real-Time Q&A with Stone10:47 Stone's First Ducks Football Game16:50 Reflections and Future Plans19:13 Conclusion and Call to Action

Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
In the debut episode of 'The Lighter Side of the Spectrum,' host David Kaufer introduces his new podcast centered around the joys, challenges, and growth opportunities in parenting children and teens on the autism spectrum. David shares his journey of over 16 years in the autism community, emphasizing the importance of inclusion and hope. Joined by guest (and producer) David Yas,, they discuss their personal experiences, the evolving understanding of autism, and meaningful moments with their sons. The episode also touches on the rise of autism diagnoses, societal perceptions, and the transformative impact of communication breakthroughs. They conclude with insights on education and the support available for families navigating autism.Find David Kaufer at:www.davidkaufer.comwww.kaufermarketing.comTopics00:00 Introduction to the Podcast00:26 Meet the Host: David Kaufer00:31 Purpose and Vision of the Podcast02:11 Introducing the guest: David Yas03:44 David's Background and Podcast Journey06:02 Parenting on the Autism Spectrum13:49 Stone's Communication Breakthrough14:26 The Spelling to Communicate Method18:34 The Power of Community and Friendship21:04 Adrian's Journey and Special Skills27:15 Emotional Moments in Special Olympics28:25 Raising Twins with Different Needs29:59 Adapting to Unique Interests30:45 Memorable Concert Experiences31:36 First Ducks Football Game33:43 Challenges and Triumphs in School41:19 The Evolution Theory of Autism47:14 Navigating the Education System49:06 Conclusion and Future Topics
